Your partner just got down on one knee to ask your hand in marriage, and now, you can’t wait to start this new chapter in your life together. But with all the excitement also comes a little anxiety thinking that planning an LGBTQ+ wedding may not be as easy.
You need not fret, however, because with these five simple tips, you’ll surely be on your way to planning the most beautiful wedding for you and your partner:
- Establish your vision first. Before you could start looking for gay friendly wedding venues, creating a guest list and choosing your wedding attire, it’s very important to establish your vision for your wedding first. Would you rather celebrate with a small, intimate gathering or a large, grand affair? Are you dreaming of tying the knot close to home or planning a romantic destination wedding? Do you want a casual or glamorous celebration? You have to be clear about your vision, so it’s easier to decide on the rest of the details for your wedding.
- Determine your budget. Aside from thinking about your vision, you also need to decide on a budget. By knowing how much you’re willing to spend for the wedding, it would be easier for you to allocate funds and make sure that you have a great wedding without going over budget.
- Prioritize your non-negotiables. There are four aspects of your wedding that you need to lock in first—your date, venue, guest list and wedding outfit. Choose a date that’s both important for you and feasible for your guests. Then, you should book a venue as early as you can, so that you can plan the rest of your wedding without worrying. Of course, you need to create a list of the people who you want to be there on your special day. And no wedding is complete without choosing outfits that reflect your personalities and your love story.
- Find all your vendors. Your wedding won’t be complete without your vendors. These are your photographer, caterer, stylist, wedding planner and decorator. Make sure that you find vendors who can understand your vision and work with your budget. Whether you plan a simple or grand wedding, you can always make your vision happen with the right team of vendors to execute your ideas.
Finally, you should never forget the little details that would make your wedding extra special. It could be personalized bobbleheads for your entourage, personalized suits and jewelry pieces from your family. The simple details will separate your wedding from all other LGBTQ+ weddings, so make sure to add a touch of your personalities in the different areas of your celebration.
In the end, planning a beautiful LGBTQ+ wedding should be exciting. When you follow these tips and really commit to making your big day as special as possible, you can definitely have the wedding of your dreams. After all, this is the most special day of your life, so it’s definitely worth all the effort and work that you put into it.
